Let me tell u a little story:
once a upon a time, there is a man with sin....he deserved to suffer in hell... when he died, god brings him to a very tidy, neat room... with a chair in the middle of it... it is actually quite comforting....
The man then asked: where is hell?
god said: Here it is... Just wait here!
then the man thought...:" aren't u mad, the room is well tidy and comforing...is that really hell? wow.... how great! no hard work or suffering.... "
so, the man was asked to wait in the room....
he waited and waited...

a day went by....a month..... a yr.... 10 yrs..... n so on....
He yelled ..cried....but there is no respond.......
there is only him... alone~ but nth else!
The man started to realize that..... the real meaning of hell........
Is the feeling being isolated.....he is suffering from the loneless and emptiness.......
it is more desvastating then anything else.........
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Do u know wt I mean now?